A nay sailor, never did get along with his wife. She constantly said she would dance on his grave. So he put in his will, that he be buried at sea.
The Buddhists teach, at least some, that the road to enlightenment is filled with stones, thorns, broken sharp things, narrow, twisty, and hard. But then, that is for those at the front of the line, doing the hardest work. The path behind them, the further it goes, becomes smoother, broader,and very easy by comparison. Thank you for being one of those making the path smooth for those who will follow.