Control is perhaps the greatest illusion of all.
Beyond our words, our actions, and our reactions, everything else is beyond our control. Accept that and peace may not blossom but causes for anger should at least decrease.
Conflict is a meeting that chooses self over peace. Effort must be made, but with great gentleness, if the path is to open up before one. The Kingdom of Heaven cannot be stormed.
Any good musician must practice just to stay alive, create harmony, and maintain the flow. The practice of peace is not different, it creates its own rhythm and harmony.
Peace to all from all