Had no idea that was what I was doing. But now that you mention it, if your open for some advice.... I am not going any further with that, my friend.
Many years ago was a professional Tarot reader. One day a woman who was also an astrologer came to me. She was worried, very worried. So read her cards, there was definitely something happening not that far in the future, even pointed to the date. Warned her to be very careful with anyone that was near and dear to her.
Things happen, her son, ran out on his bike, straight into the path of a car, and died. We met again, and counseled her, she still had a loving husband and daughter who needed her, but she was beyond being able to respond, so deep in grief she was.
Some time later, we met again and she gave me a gift, of a silver necklace, with a silver Ankh hanging from it. Have no idea what happened later.
That told me she heard me, even if she couldn't help herself then. I hope she managed to, but do not know.
My mother gave me the best advice anyone ever did concerning other couples, either both parties or each. Never criticize, you never know what goes on behind closed doors. The real story is not for others to see. I was a teenager and not knowing anything, gave my views on someone or ones, it has been a day or two since then. Her words sunk through because she rarely corrected me, so when she did, it sunk in.
Your writing as always is wonderful to read and a joy.
Keep it up my friend. Your writing has always inspired my replies.