To quote an old lyric, "A pretty girl is like a melody, her memory lingers on.", it cannot be otherwise. Kudos for your acceptance of what you cannot change. You seem to have picked up my motto:

"Love to all, from All.". A kindred spirit is always nice to find.

May your strength be enough for what you need to do, and your heart open enough to accept all. That is my practice, which is still very much a work in progress.;)